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Capt. Robert Edward Dolan Jr.

Age: 43

Hometown: Alexandria, Va., USA

Occupation: Head of strategy and concepts branch, U.S. Navy

Location: Ground, Pentagon

"One of Bob's department heads on the USS John Hancock gave this picture to him when they made their last deployment. This was the ship he commanded for two years, and it was the ship's last deployment because it was decommissioned shortly after. The picture shows Bob sitting in the captain's chair on the bridge. He liked being in the Navy; he liked being on a ship and being at sea. The ship's motto was 'First for freedom,' which I've kind of taken on as our family's motto since September 11. The picture just personifies his life; beyond being a family man, this was Bob." -- Lisa Dolan, wife


Bob Dolan began his military career at the U.S. Naval Academy and by 40, was commander of the USS John Hancock, with its motto "First for Freedom."

During his 20-year Navy career, he served in Bahrain, the Arabian Gulf, the Adriatic Sea and the Mediterranean, at various naval stations and on the Joint Chiefs of Staff in the mid-1990s before obtaining a master's degree from the National War College. He received several decorations, including the Meritorious Service Medal.

His loyalty extended beyond his career.

He was the kind of friend who didn't lose touch with childhood pals from his home town of Florham Park, N.J. He was a devoted husband to his wife of 18 1/2 years, Lisa. And he made time to coach weekly Little League games for his son, Beau, and chaperon school dances for his daughter, Rebecca.

"He was intelligent and kind and giving and smart and fun and interesting and worldly," said Mark Wallinger, who met Dolan in kindergarten at Holy Family School.

Living for "duty, honor and country" did not make Dolan a one-dimensional man, Wallinger said. He could quote Shakespeare and Monty Python in the same sentence. He was equally comfortable commanding a billion-dollar ship and chatting at the church picnic.

Last year, Dolan, 43, moved his family to Alexandria and went to work at the Pentagon as strategy and concepts branch head under the chief of naval operations. Just three weeks ago, he moved into a renovated office on the first floor of D Ring, the area struck by a hijacked American Airlines jetliner last Tuesday.

"Bob Dolan was the best and the brightest this country had to offer to the altar of freedom," Lisa Dolan wrote in a letter to friends and the media.

"We pray that his rest is peaceful," she said. "Although ours cannot be, we rest easy in the memories of an American hero and many more like him, so very much touched by the hand of God."

-- Sylvia Moreno

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Source: The Washington Post, AP and

The profiles in this feature were written in the months following Sept. 11, 2001.

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